Equal rights between heterosexual
and homosexual couples have been a growing dispute in recent times.
Homosexuality in general has been an issue throughout history. In contrast, in
ancient Greece sexual intercourse between men was considered masculine and men were
free to do so as long as the sex was in the dominant position because that
dominant position was considered sophisticated and signified higher social
class (Nussbaum 11). Today, discrimination amongst straights and the lesbian,
gay, bi, and transgendered or LGBT community is prevalent and continues to be a
taboo and uncomfortable subject in society. Not until the 1970s was
homosexuality decriminalized in the developed countries of the world ("United
States Sodomy Laws"). Letting marriage be allowed for all persons no
matter their sexual orientation is a given civil right for all human beings and
banning marriage is against the constitution of the government.
The
demographics of homosexuals are essentially unknown due to the taboo around the
subject. Most people choose not to reveal their sexual identity because of the
discrimination. With regards to the taboo surrounding homosexuality, research
has shown children in homes of homosexual couples live and grow up in the same
environment as children of heterosexual couples (Bernheim 46). This taboo becomes
a problem when the rights of heterosexual couples supersede same-sex couples. Comparing
same-sex marriage equality to the Black Civil Rights Movements has also been
controversial because of the view that homosexuality is a choice. However, would
it matter even if homosexuality is a choice?
The
religious affiliation to the opposition of homosexual marriage is also debated
because of the deep view amongst religious people that the religious texts have
stated by God that homosexuality is sinful and should be punished (NeJaime). However,
the same religious people ignore other parts of their religious texts. For
example, the Bible and the Quran state that if a woman has sex outside of
marriage, she should be given the death penalty (Leviticus 20:10; Azim). There is
this entire social stigma around something simple like marriage. Whether
society likes to admit it or not, discrimination against the LGBT community still
exists as well as subtle racism in the workplace, sexism, and other issues that
can be taken care of if everyone stood up for these issues, but these issues are
instead swept under the rug because no one wants to face them. Not everyone has
a religion with the same rules, and one group does not have the right to force
its rules on other people.
A recent article about a gay man who
was arrested for refusing to leave his partner in the hospital has surfaced.
Even though he has power of attorney, there is now a restraining order stopping
him from visiting his partner (Edwards). For everyone still asking, what's the
big deal with gay marriage, why not just give them civil unions or some other
separate-but-equal label, this is why: until the laws recognize gay men and
women as being the same as heterosexuals, the LGBT people will still have to
deal with this sort of hateful discrimination. Martin Luther King, Jr. once
said, "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." Most
people do not realize that this story is not an isolated incident.
One
of the main arguments against gay marriage is that if gay marriage becomes
legal than what’s to stop incest, pedophilia, or bestiality from becoming
legal? (Bernheim 44). First of all, marriages between members of the same-sex
are all consensual. Bestiality is between an animal and a human. An animal
cannot consent to anything. Pedophilia is between a child and an adult. The
child is not psychologically capable of making decisions about sex or marriage.
Also, having sex or being in a relationship with the child can harm the child
physically, psychologically, and physiologically. For example, sex can harm
them with birth defects and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Homosexual
couples consent to sex; they are infertile unless they adopt, surrogate, or get
a sperm donor. They choose to have children unlike when straight couples often
times don’t have a choice in having children. Marriage does not always have to
involve sex, but involves being recognized the same under the law as everyone
and as well as being socially accepted. This goes to the next argument, which
is incest. Incest also causes birth defects and psychological problems. However,
because of the view towards homosexuality today, the psychological trauma is
also associated with same-sex marriage because of the ridicule and harassment
one would receive by bigoted individuals. Another argument is that making gay
marriage legal would make it the norm for gay men to be more adulterous;
therefore, everyone would follow their lead. There have been developed nations
where same-marriage is legal, and they are some of the most powerful nations in
the world. The religious argument is the most complicated and popular argument.
However, interpretations of religious texts have changed over centuries and
many human beings throughout history have added to the texts to embellish their
own selfish agendas. Catholic priests have been involved in child molestation
more than non-religious individuals.
A
person living in a country where all citizens supposedly have their rights and
everyone is equal under the law is considered ideal. However, when citizens
fail to recognize that one person is not receiving the same rights as them,
that’s when human rights are at stake. According to Michael D. Shear, White
House Correspondent, “Indeed, as both law and culture have increasingly
recognized lesbian and gay equality, discrimination against lesbians and gay
men has shifted from per se rejection of homosexuality toward rejection of
lesbians and gay men as same-sex couples, including but not limited to married
couples. Mitt Romney’s position is illustrative of an increasingly common
conservative position- professed opposition to anti-gay discrimination and
simultaneous opposition to legal recognition for same-sex couples” (qtd. in NeJaime
1175). This statement directly reveals the fact that many people are still
against rights for same-sex couples.
In
1979, “A number of people in Sweden called in sick with a case of being homosexual,
in protest of homosexuality being classified as an illness. This was followed
by an activist occupation of the main office of the National Board of
Healthcare. Within a few months, Sweden became the first country in the
world to remove homosexuality as an illness” (Quistbergh). In 1944 homosexual
acts were legal in Sweden and in 1972 transsexual people could legally change
their sex in Sweden. However, this primitive view of homosexuality is still
apparent in recent times in different parts of the world. The laws may change,
but the discrimination is still alive and western culture is reluctant to adopt
the modern view.
Humans are naturally sexual beings
and natural parts of the body are not in the control of humans at all times.
Humans have no choice when it comes to sexual orientation. As geneticist, Sven
Bocklandt explains, “Human sexual preference is a sexually dimorphic trait with
a substantial genetic component” (et al. 1). However, human beings do not like
others who are different from them in the slightest. They still abhor change
and diversity in the world. Canada, United Kingdom, France, and Australia are
some of the few developed nations who are on the way to equality in terms of
marriage and in terms of equality between straights and non-straights.
Homosexuality is becoming ‘normal’ in society, but the process is slow and this
process will take society some time because it is still a foreign concept to
some. Even in the United States, where about 70% of the population identifies
as Christian, several states have legalized same-sex marriage. Yet, Christian
nations today, like Uganda where a homosexual person can be put to death, are
still suffering. There are Muslim nations like Saudi Arabia, where capital punishment
is possible for same-sex sexual activity or even just a man being seen in
public holding hands with another man. Returning to the main point which is
that loving other human beings and making this love legally binding under the
law is a natural right that belongs to all individuals because no one can
choose their sexual orientation just like no one can choose their own skin
color.
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